WHO IS THE MATTER WITH ME?

WHO IS THE MATTER WITH ME?

During these times of heightened health concerns, it is not only important to strengthen our immune system but it is also crucial to fix our mental patterns. There is a well-known saying that goes, "As above, so below", which means that our thoughts and emotions have a direct impact on our physical body. This is also known as the mental equivalent of diseases.

The importance of understanding the mental equivalent of diseases lies in the fact that we must identify the root cause of our illnesses in order to effectively heal ourselves. According to the law of attraction, we attract what we think about. Therefore, if we are constantly harboring negative thoughts and emotions, we will inevitably attract illnesses and diseases. 

Negative thoughts and emotions have been linked to a number of health concerns including anxiety disorders, depression, heart disease, and even cancer. Conversely, studies have shown that individuals who practice positive thinking and focus on gratitude have boosted immune systems and improved overall health. 

Mental equivalent is a concept that suggests that our thoughts and emotions create vibrations that can impact our physical health. Every negative thought that we have about ourselves or our life can create a "mental equivalent" that can reflect in our physical body, manifesting itself into an illness. For example, if a person constantly worries about getting sick, they are more likely to attract and manifest that illness in their body. Similarly, if a person has a negative mindset and always focuses on negative thoughts, their body will reflect that negativity, leading to stress, anxiety, and eventually, diseases.

WE ATTRACT ILLNESSES AND DISEASES THROUGH OUR NEGATIVE THOUGHTS.

 

 I read in Louise Hay’s book “You Can Heal Your Life” that our thoughts create every disease in our body. Our body mirrors our emotions, feelings, thoughts, and beliefs. I also believe that when I feel sick, it is not because of a virus but is caused by another person. So I ask myself, “WHO is the matter with me?” instead of, “WHAT is the matter with me?” 

Our lungs represent our capacity to take in and give out life. If we have emphysema, pneumonia, or the flu,  it means we feel desperate or we do not have the right to live fully. Having tuberculosis or TB according to Louise Hay would come from having thoughts of possessiveness, revenge, and cruelty,  and wasting away from selfishness. This is why TB is still one of the top diseases of many of our countrymen whose self-worth is very low.

The mental equivalent of fever is FRUSTRATION. Who am I frustrated with? If the disease or sickness is located on the left side of the body, it is caused by a woman, and if it is on the right side of the body, it is caused by a man. 

 

 Here are some of our subconscious patterns and what they manifest into. ANGER-HOSTILITY (appendicitis, arthritis, boils, constipation, heart problems, high blood pressure, indigestion, inflammation) 

CONFUSION-FRUSTRATION (colds, flu, headache) 

CRITICISM (arthritis, liver problems, ulcers, high blood pressure) 

FEAR (accidents, asthma, flu, headache, heart problems, indigestion) 

GRIEF-DEPRESSION (cancer, colds, gallstones) 

GUILT-SELF-CONDEMNATION (back trouble, cancer, hay fever) 

LACK-LIMITATION (anemia, asthma, kidney trouble) 

OLD AGE CONCERN-afraid of growing old (hardening of arteries, kidney trouble) 

RESENTMENT-UNFORGIVENESS (arthritis, cancer, heart problems)

TENSION-STRESS (colds, constipation, headache, high blood pressure)   

 

  If you get sick the next time, ask first the question- WHO is the MATTER with ME? 

I DON'T BELIEVE THAT THE WORLD IS A DIFFICULT PLACE BECAUSE PEOPLE HATE EACH OTHER. THE WORLD BECOMES A DIFFICULT PLACE BECAUSE THEY HATE THEMSELVES. THEY DON'T ACCEPT THE OTHER ASPECTS OF THEMSELVES SO THEY TRY TO REPRESS THEM.

I DON'T BELIEVE THAT THE WORLD IS A DIFFICULT PLACE BECAUSE PEOPLE HATE EACH OTHER. THE WORLD BECOMES A DIFFICULT PLACE BECAUSE THEY HATE THEMSELVES. THEY DON'T ACCEPT THE OTHER ASPECTS OF THEMSELVES SO THEY TRY TO REPRESS THEM.

The world can be a confusing and challenging place to navigate, and it can be easy to default to blaming others for this difficulty. However, I believe that the root cause of a challenging world is not hatred towards others, but rather self-hatred and the repression of parts of our own identities.

When we hate ourselves, we often project that hatred outwards onto others. We might judge them harshly, criticize them for things we don't accept in ourselves, or lash out when we feel threatened or inadequate. This sort of behavior can create a cycle of tension and conflict, making the world feel like a difficult place to exist in.

But what causes this self-hatred in the first place? It can come from a variety of sources, such as societal expectations or past trauma. At an early age, we might learn that certain aspects of ourselves are not acceptable or valued by those around us. We might be told that we are "too emotional," "not smart enough," or "too different" to fit in society's mold, and as a result, we begin to hate ourselves.

As we grow up, the judgment and criticism we receive only intensify, and we begin to believe that our flaws and shortcomings are what make us unlovable and unworthy. We start to repress the parts of ourselves that we believe are undesirable, hoping to fit into the expectations of others. But this self-hatred only leads to frustration, anger, and sadness.

In turn, when we hate ourselves, we find it much easier to project that hate onto others. Instead of accepting and embracing our differences, we judge and criticize those who don't fit into our idea of "normal." Our insecurities and fears are projected onto others, and our relationships become filled with mistrust and misunderstandings.

This dynamic is amplified on a global scale, where entire cultures and nations are pitted against each other based on perceived differences. The hatred and animosity that exist between different groups of people are often attributed to differences in culture, religion, nationality, race, and many other factors. It is easy to look at others and blame them for the difficulties we face, but the truth is that often our own self-hatred and lack of self-acceptance are what make the world a difficult place to live in.

When we hate ourselves, we often project that hate onto others. We view others through a lens of judgement and criticism, picking out aspects of their identity that we find threatening, uncomfortable or simply different from our own. We might lash out at them, mistrust them or try to distance ourselves from them, even if we barely know them. We hold onto our own identities tightly, believing that we are superior or 'right' in some way, and we become fiercely attached to the differences that we believe separate us from others.

But in doing so, we actually create the very divisions that we claim to hate. We become locked into a cycle of 'othering' ourselves from others and never truly understand the root of our own biases and prejudices. It is this lack of self-awareness that ultimately leads to a breakdown in human relationships, causing the world to become a more difficult and divided place.

At the heart of this issue lies the importance of self-acceptance. When we are unwilling to accept certain aspects of ourselves, we become consumed by feelings of shame, insecurity, and self-doubt. These negative emotions can manifest in different ways, including anger, guilt, and jealousy, and they can ultimately affect the way we interact with others. We may become judgmental or critical, projecting our own insecurities onto those around us and pushing people away.

This lack of self-acceptance also leads to a lack of empathy and understanding towards those who are different from us. We see ourselves as 'better' or 'more deserving' than those who don't fit into our narrow definition of what it means to be acceptable. This can lead to discrimination, exclusion, and even violence. However, it is not necessarily an external hatred of others that makes the world a difficult place. Rather, it is the internal hatred and lack of self-acceptance that creates a negative and difficult environment.

When individuals do not fully accept themselves, it can cause them to feel insecure, anxious, or ashamed of certain aspects of who they are. This can cause them to try to suppress or hide these parts of themselves, either out of fear of judgment or rejection by others, or simply due to their own internalized negative beliefs. This lack of self-acceptance can lead to a host of negative consequences, such as depression, anxiety, and even physical health problems.

Moreover, when individuals do not accept themselves, it can also lead to negative attitudes and behavior towards others. It is often easier to project one's own negative feelings onto others, rather than confront and address them within oneself. Those who harbor negative feelings towards themselves may be more likely to judge or discriminate against others who exhibit similar qualities. This is because when individuals refuse to accept certain aspects of themselves, they project their insecurities onto others, leading to fear, mistrust, and hatred.

Furthermore, when individuals are not at peace with themselves, they struggle to establish meaningful connections with others. This may lead to loneliness, disconnection, and isolation, which can further exacerbate feelings of self-hatred. In turn, individuals who hate themselves may struggle to relate to others and build healthy relationships, creating a cycle of negativity and despair that makes the world a more difficult place.

Ultimately, it is crucial for individuals to embrace all aspects of themselves and foster a sense of self-acceptance, self-love, and compassion. Learning to love oneself is a complex journey that requires patience, vulnerability, and a willingness to confront and challenge limiting beliefs and negative self-talk. However, the benefits of this process are manifold, as it can lead to a greater sense of fulfillment, purpose, and joy in life.

In conclusion, it is clear that the world is not inherently difficult because of the hate that people have for each other. Instead, it is the hatred that people have for themselves that makes the world a difficult place.

I WAS TALKING ABOUT CONTENTAINMENT 23 YEARS AGO

I WAS TALKING ABOUT CONTENTAINMENT 23 YEARS AGO.

I gave this speech in Caux Palace, Switzerland in July 23, 2000. Formerly called Moral Rearmament (MRA) now known as Initiatives of Change (IofC), many world and spiritual leaders such as the Dalai Lama, Kofi Annan former Secretary General of UN, and other heads of states had participated in various conferences here.

To those people who believe in my cause, please give me the support in creating entertaining programs that will help change our country for the better. Here is my speech I delivered in Caux, Switzerland in the the year 2000 during one of the Moral Rearmament conferences.

 Entertainment for the Holistic Education of One’s Self (ENTHEOS)

" In terms of social and political unity and economic development, the Philippines today lags behind its rapidly developing neighbors in Southeast Asia. The majority of its people remained mired in poverty, divided by a large gap between the rich and the poor, unable as yet, to fully muster the discipline, the drive, the social and political cohesiveness and will to uplift themselves up from the mire of underdevelopment. 

More alarming than its lack of resources, huge national debt and unemployment woes is the value system imbedded in the Filipino psyche. A value system that has, in large part impaired the Filipino’s ability to rise above his lot, shift his focus from himself, take responsibility and consider himself part of a collective whole in terms of shaping the national destiny. Among the deadlier components of this value system are a sense of apathy and uninvolvement- “the nation’s problems are someone else’s fault and responsibility- not mine,” a double standard morality- where appearances, what other people will say, determines behavior, rather than rock-solid personal convictions of right and wrong, and a personal commitment to adhere to what is right whether or not there is a policing or surveilling authority; lack of discipline, diligence and perseverance- the desire for the “quick fix,” immediate gratification, for living it up here and now; backward religiosity and a faulty concept of God and His expectations of man- the measuring of Christianity by the externals; by rituals and paraphernalia rather than the evidence of inner renewal and the power to live the Christ-like way of life. That is, the ability to be genuinely concerned for the common good; the development of a true work ethic- “whatever thy hands find to do, do to the best of your ability; more sincerity and integrity in the national character; respect for the law and authority as one’s duty before God; a higher standard of morality; proper stewardship of wealth and natural resources triggered by a sense of personal accountability before God; true desire for social unity, peace and progress flowing from an inner compulsion to obey the directive to “love thy neighbor as thyself.” 

There is a saying that every nation that rises and falls, rises or falls first from within. If Filipinos are to rise above their present state of affairs, the work has to begin from within. There must be an overhauling and a reshaping of their value system. True national development can only begin from the development of the individual Filipino’s character. And what shapes his character? During the recent elections, educated Filipinos were both appalled and amazed to find that nearly every entertainment personality that entered the contest won the votes. 

Our lack of cultural depth, or a dominant and authoritative governing force have made entertainers and the entertainment field perhaps the most influential, most socially binding force. 

Already, Filipinos have been listed as the most avid moviegoers (and movie makers) in Asia, if not the world. Entertainment personalities, and the values they espouse have become the models and trendsetters of every household. A grave and heavy responsibility is given to entertainers and the entertainment industry as a whole. But at the moment, it is neither aware nor concerned. This proposal is to ensure that it begins to be both. This proposal is devoted to the formation of an organization called Entertainment for the Holistic Education of One’s Self or ENTHEOS. (The word enthusiasm comes from the Greek word “entheos” which means God within, or inspired by God. We should always be enthusiastic with how we live our lives because God is within us. That enthusiastic feeling is a sign from God.) Its objective is to mobilize the entertainment industry, with stress on the movie, television, music industries, social media and other digital platforms which are the most pervasive nationwide, as a force for values, and ultimately social buildup and change. It seeks to combine both entertainment and developmental goals of captivating audiences and subliminally transforming them from within. It seeks the participation, cooperation and commitment of socially- responsible, development-oriented entertainers within the industry, as well as those in the political field. 

The objective of Entertainment for the Holistic Education of One’s Self organization or ENTHEOS is to launch mass appeal shows, or work through existing ones precisely for the purpose of modeling and promoting the values so vitally necessary for shaping what the Filipino thinks, believes and acts out in life. Artists, producers, directors, and other creative talents from the film, stage, music and broadcast and social media  industries will be tapped to join forces for a very pressing purpose; to disseminate and instill direly needed positive moral, social and spiritual values, through a potent, but largely self-serving and unharnessed entertainment industry. 

Several years ago I hosted a youth-oriented radio program called “Boses Ng Kabataan”(Voice of the Youth), in Radio Veritas, together with high school and college students. We offered our young listeners new lifestyles that helped develop in them positive and wholesome self-images, formation of worthwhile goals and ambitions, and the acquisition of Christian values and attitudes that made them strong and enabled them to understand the harmful forces controlling our society. I also produced and hosted a one-hour musical radio program in Radio Veritas entitled “Great Values from Great Songs,” where listeners were given a chance not only to listen but also to reflect on the meaning and significance of the lyrics of some of the most beautiful and memorable songs we have heard through the years. Each song was introduced by a one or two-minute spiel that brought out hidden truths, golden insights, and yes, great values from the lyrics of each song like love of neighbor, honesty, the readiness to forgive, a willingness to turn the other cheek, choosing spiritual rewards over materialism. The premise is that music is perhaps one of the most subtle, yet powerfully influential medium for forming mindsets and changing perspectives. It is able to invade and shape the subconscious by repetition and constant exposure of its message. The music industry can create a new culture, particularly youth culture. It can shape values and lifestyles of the young. Music in reality belongs to the industry of communication. It is an outlet, an expression of our emotions. Music can also communicate negative messages. Songs whose lyrics promote sex, drugs, freedom from commitment and responsibility have negative effects in our emotional lives. Slowly, our way of thinking is affected and over a period of time we wake up and discover that the situations that used to shock us are now amusing and tolerable. 

What I call as ENTHEOS concerts were also started a few years back. I produced, together with some celebrities, concert tours in key cities and provinces and had singers together in one show sing inspirational songs and even had them share to the audience how the messages of those songs touched their lives. I was also involved in a nationwide tour of an all-celebrity basketball and volleyball teams composed of superstars. In between games, the stars talked about relevant issues like drug addiction, environmental concerns, and spiritual matters. There have been many movie and television producers who have produced spiritually uplifting movies based on the lives of saints, and also inspiring films based on the lives of our national heroes and even ordinary citizens who made a difference in their lives. 

The concept of using entertainment for developmental and transformational purposes is already happening but I want more participation and commitment from everyone in the entertainment industry to become socially responsible and development oriented. I wish to transform the business of entertainment into another form of public service."

Why I share Universal laws and principles to everyone I meet.

WHY I SHARE UNIVERSAL LAWS AND SPIRITUAL PRINCIPLES TO EVERYONE I MEET 

As human beings, we often get caught up in the day-to-day routines, responsibilities, and challenges of life. We forget that we are not just physical beings, but also spiritual beings. Our spirit is the core of our being – it is who we are.

As we navigate our journey through life, it is essential to acknowledge that we share universal laws and spiritual principles that govern our existence. These laws and principles are not only limited to certain individuals or groups but are accessible to each and every one of us. However, it is only when we become aware of our spiritual or divine nature that these laws and principles can operate effectively and positively in our lives.

When we are conscious of our spiritual essence, we open ourselves up to a world of endless possibilities. We become attuned to the Universe's spiritual laws, such as the Law of Attraction, the Law of Vibration, and the Law of Cause and Effect. These laws help us to manifest our desires, maintain positive energy levels, andlive a fulfilling life.

As spiritual beings, we are not limited to our physical bodies or the material world around us. Rather, we are connected to something much greater and more powerful - the universal spiritual energy that flows through everything in existence. This energy is governed by a set of divine laws and principles that are always at play, whether we are aware of them or not.

When we become aware of these universal laws and spiritual principles, we gain the power to harness this energy and use it to manifest our desires in life. These laws include the Law of Attraction, which states that like attracts like and that we attract into our lives that which we focus our thoughts and emotions on. The Law of Cause and Effect states that every action has a reaction, and that we are responsible for the outcomes of our choices and actions.

Other spiritual principles include the power of forgiveness, the practice of gratitude, and the importance of living in the present moment. By incorporating these principles into our daily lives, we can experience a deeper sense of peace, purpose, and fulfillment.

As human beings, it is easy to get caught up in the stress and chaos of day-to-day life. We often find ourselves worrying about the past or the future, rather than living in the present moment. However, by embracing the universal laws and spiritual principles that govern our existence, we can find a greater sense of peace and harmony.

One of the fundamental principles of spirituality is the understanding that we are all spiritual beings. This means that we are not just physical bodies, but also possess a divine essence that transcends our physical form. By recognizing this fundamental truth, we begin to realize that we are all connected to something greater than ourselves, and that we have access to a vast array of powerful spiritual tools and resources.

One such tool is the power of divine intervention. Many people think of miracles as rare occurrences that only happen in times of extreme need or crisis. However, the truth is that miracles are an everyday part of life for spiritual beings. These miracles are not limited to times of crisis or only when divine intervention comes at the eleventh hour. Divinity and spirituality are present in every aspect of life, and there are universal laws and spiritual principles that guide us towards positive outcomes. As someone who understands and believes in the power of these principles, I make it a point to share them with everyone I meet.